Not helpful

Not helpful to tell me that everything is going to be all right, that I will get used to it and that the new normal will become o.k. after all, it's been a year. That colored my whole day. That affected every single interaction I had from that point on. That was like the big rock thrown into the pond. Have you "lost" your son? Have you poured everything you have into someone, only to have them mostly taken away? I didn't think so. Therefore, please don't tell me how to feel.

The end of John 20, these are written so that you might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the son of God and that by believing, you might have life on his name. This is helpful.